How to bring your relationship alive

By Dan Martinez


Are you feeling that your relationship has lost passion? Or you don't feel desire to spend more time your partner? As time passes, relationships should get stronger and much more passionate. However, sometimes life gets so busy that relationships get secondary treatment in comparison to other things like career or kids. Every relationship needs constant attention and care in order to keep it alive otherwise partners drift apart. To reignite the sparks in the relationship, following ideas are worth giving a try:

1. Surprises: Nothing brings the partner closer than a sweet surprise thrown by you. Be it a gadget the partner may be yearning for for a vacation trip that has been long pending, your lover is going to be swept with your gesture of making the partner feel special. Expressing your caring thoughts through gifts or surprises deepens the connection with your partner.

2. Romantic Night: A candle light dinner at least in a fortnight or a special meal cooked in your own home won't only fill the empty tummy but also win the heart of your partner. Discover what is favorite cuisine of your partner and create the evening around that. Also, make sure the mood is set right by playing partner's favorite music and having fragrant candles and dimmed lights. You may want to pre-plan a dance night by going out in one of your partner's favorite club. Having such recurrent nights always keep the passion alive.

3. Quality Time: This does not refer to watching TV together or doing household chores together but time when your mind is not busy with some other task. As an example, have a hike together or spending some time in bed over a weekend morning. You'll find a lot of unknown aspects of your companion by talking more and often. Also, touch your companion often and get the partner to touch you in exchange as much as possible. Bodily contact increases oxytocin, a harmone, known for reducing stress and improving a feeling of trust.

4. Special Occasions: Whether it is an anniversary of the first date/marriage or your partner's birthday or maybe a lover's day like Valentine's Day, always make an effort to make those moments memorable. For example, arriving at the door having a dozen roses, a box of chocolates with an anniversary card with hand written notes will impress your partner using your caring nature. One main thing to remember is to plan out those occasions ahead of time to ensure that efforts bring about class and style. These events bring joy alive and invigorate the relationship.

5. Communication: An open communication will always unveil any hidden anger or resentment that may have resulted from a disagreement or possibly a conflict. Always let the partner know very well what has upset you over any issue so that the partner knows what to consider in the future if the same issue is faced again. Never hide any resentment therefore feelings will accumulate over time and will distance you from your partner. This does not mean that you need to create a mountain out of a molehill but communicate when the time comes and in right words. Open discussion is healthier for both sides as it brings the partners on the same page on any topic or issue.
For just about any relationship to flourish and be a long lasting one, it needs a serious amounts of commitment from each partner. Above ideas will surely improve chances for an excitement filled relationship if followed with sincerity and conviction.




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